Giving

I am what I give, not what I receive.

I definitely have a habit of seeking comfort, happiness and security outside of myself. I also tend to blame others if they are not giving me what I need.

The idea of changing your thinking, so that I give what it is that I want to receive. I give love. I give acceptance. I give time and loyalty. All of this reflects back on me and shows who I am. Rather than constantly seeking, as if I am empty and lacking.

I think this is essential in all relationships. Giving to the to the other rather than seeking what they can provide you with. I plan to try this today in my relationships. Giving what I need. Listening when I need to feel heard. Communicating when I need to know what they are feeling. Loving and accepting who they are in this moment.